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What We Borrow From Films: Longing and Meaning When Life Leaves Little Room (+Free Resource)
Why do certain films ache long after the credits roll? This essay explores longing, limerence, attachment, and the psychology of why films feel so alive during depleted seasons of life. A gentle, grounded look at how stories offer symbolic nourishment — and how to use them for insight rather than escape. Includes a free printable…
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Love, Fidelity, and the Evolution of Marriage: A Spiral Dynamics View of Why We Stay, Leave, or Stray (+Free Journal)
When we fall in love outside marriage, what truly drives us — desire, unmet need, or the evolution of consciousness itself? This essay explores love and fidelity through the lens of Spiral Dynamics, attachment, and Tennov’s limerence. Discover how our inner world shapes whether we stay, leave, or stray — and what that reveals about…
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The Spark Outside Marriage: Understanding Limerence, CEN, and Fearful-Avoidant Patterns (+ Free Guide)
Explore why attraction outside the relationship can feel so intense for women with CEN. Learn to read limerence as a guide, understand unmet needs, and gently nurture your inner life and marriage with IFS prompts, journaling, and self-reflection tools.