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Good Enough Is Not One Thing: Motherhood Through the Spiral
An essay on motherhood, guilt, and the shifting meaning of “good enough.” Through lived moments and the Spiral Dynamics lens, it explores different ways mothers hold boundaries, solve problems, attune emotionally, and design sustainable systems—without judgment. Written as companionship rather than advice, it helps mothers feel seen, less alone, and gentler with themselves in the…
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Love, Fidelity, and the Evolution of Marriage: A Spiral Dynamics View of Why We Stay, Leave, or Stray (+Free Journal)
When we fall in love outside marriage, what truly drives us — desire, unmet need, or the evolution of consciousness itself? This essay explores love and fidelity through the lens of Spiral Dynamics, attachment, and Tennov’s limerence. Discover how our inner world shapes whether we stay, leave, or stray — and what that reveals about…