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Why Couples Bicker Over Small Things (Part 1 of 3)—Unmet Needs Beneath Everyday Conflicts
Many relationship arguments aren’t really about chores, tone of voice, or who’s “doing more.” They’re about unspoken emotional needs shaped by childhood emotional neglect (CEN) and attachment wounds. This article explores why small things feel so big, with detailed examples to help you recognize unmet needs beneath everyday conflicts.
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Why Couples Bicker Over Small Things – A Roadmap to Deeper Connection
Why do couples bicker over the smallest things? Beneath everyday arguments lie unmet emotional needs, old patterns, and stress that fuels reactivity. This pillar article introduces a three-part series exploring why conflicts escalate, how to understand the deeper roots, and what it takes to move from bickering to connection.