reparenting yourself

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  • Why You Resist Sleep Even When You’re Exhausted

    Have you ever been exhausted but found yourself scrolling, cleaning, or staring into the quiet instead of sleeping? When childhood emotional neglect or adversity shaped our early years, rest could feel unsafe or undeserved. In adulthood, that old imprint resurfaces each night. This piece explores the hidden emotional needs beneath bedtime procrastination—and gentle, practical ways…

  • Why We Long to Start a Family Early: Healing Childhood Emotional Neglect and Embracing Wholeness (+ Free Guide)

    Explore how Childhood Emotional Neglect (CEN) can fuel an intense longing to start a family early. This trauma-informed article unpacks the hidden emotional drivers behind family urgency and offers reflection prompts, IFS-based tools, and reparenting practices. Whether you’re planning a family or already have one, this guide helps you understand your inner needs with compassion…

  • Becoming the Parent You Needed: Healing the Mother-Daughter Dynamic (+free journal)

    Explore the emotional complexity of mother-daughter dynamics and how past wounds can shape parenting today. This healing article invites mothers into awareness, repair, and becoming the parent they longed for—featuring a free guided journal for post-rupture reconnection.

  • Why Stillness Feels Unsettling for the CEN Mother at the Playground—And How to Heal

    Do you struggle with stillness at the playground—feeling restless, unproductive, or even triggered? If you grew up with childhood emotional neglect (CEN), waiting and \”doing nothing\” can feel deeply uncomfortable. This article explores the hidden reasons behind this discomfort and offers healing steps, practical exercises, and resources to help you find peace in presence.

  • The Electra Complex & the CEN Mother: When a Daughter’s Love Feels Like Rejection

    Why does your daughter’s attachment to her father trigger feelings of rejection or inadequacy? For mothers who experienced childhood emotional neglect (CEN), Electra complex behaviors can stir deep-seated wounds. This guide explores the psychological roots of these emotions, attachment theories, and practical ways to foster a secure mother-daughter bond.