Category: Understanding CEN

Dopamine-Seeking Habits and CEN: Risk and Thrill-Seeking (Part 1 of 6)

Thrill-seeking behaviors like fast driving, risky adventures, or emotional chaos may be linked to childhood emotional neglect (CEN). Explore the roots of risk addiction and how to reclaim real aliveness with grounding tools, IFS exercises, and a free guide.
Dopamine-Seeking Habits and CEN: What Your Behaviour Is Really Trying to Tell You

Understand how Childhood Emotional Neglect drives dopamine-seeking habits like thrill-seeking, overworking, shopping, drinking or scrolling. Begin to heal with clarity and care.
Why Your Child Acts Out with Their Father — and You’re Left Carrying It All (+Free IFS Dialogue)

When your child whines for dad and he avoids conflict, you’re left carrying the parenting weight. Here’s why it triggers you — and how to set boundaries.
The Motherhood Fog: Why You Feel Irritated, Blank, and Disconnected—And How to Parent Through It (+ Free Journal)

Feeling numb, irritated, and confused as a mom? This gentle, therapeutic guide explores the hidden roots of motherhood fog—from ADHD and emotional neglect to the nonstop demands of caregiving—and offers practical steps to parent through it and reconnect with yourself.
Why ADHD Moms Feel Overwhelmed by Clutter and Noise: Trauma, Emotional Neglect, and the Healing Power of Simplicity

Why do ADHD mothers feel overwhelmed by clutter and noise—and why does being home feel so triggering? Explore the trauma-informed reasons behind sensory overload in moms with ADHD and emotional neglect, plus realistic minimalist tips and nervous system tools to help you feel calmer, safer, and more at home.
Is It ADHD, CEN, or Just Motherhood Overload? A Deep Guide for Women Who’ve Always ‘Managed’—Until Now

A deep, compassionate guide for women and mothers exploring undiagnosed ADHD, emotional neglect (CEN), and attachment wounds. Find clarity and next steps.
The Pressure to Succeed Quickly: Understanding and Easing the Creative Rush (+ Free Journal)

Feeling pressured to monetize your passion project quickly? Explore the deeper reasons behind urgency, scarcity, and burnout in creative work—plus practical tools to reconnect with purpose, safety, and sustainability as you build a psychology-based side hustle.
The Grief Beneath the Anger: How Restlessness, Somatic Healing, and Nature Lead Us Home (+free PDF)

Grief often hides behind anger and restlessness, especially during quiet moments. Learn how to understand these emotions, why they surface, and discover somatic and nature-based practices to support your healing journey.
The Freeze Melts Into Fire: Why Sudden Anger Might Be a Sign of Deep Emotional Healing (+ free journal)

If you’ve been feeling intense anger out of nowhere—snapping at loved ones, overwhelmed by rage—you’re not broken. Learn how unprocessed grief, emotional neglect, and long-buried trauma can turn into explosive anger, and why this can actually be a step toward healing.
The Healing Power of Stillness: Reclaiming Your Inner Self After Emotional Neglect (+ Free Journal)

Discover the healing potential of stillness for adults recovering from childhood emotional neglect. Learn how to sit with discomfort, reconnect with your inner self, and gently reclaim rest.
The Heroine’s Journey Through Motherhood: A Path of Healing for Emotionally Neglected Daughters

Explore the heroine’s journey through the lens of motherhood—from conception to early parenting—with emotional depth, mythological wisdom, and practical tools for healing childhood emotional neglect.
Preventing Attachment Issues: Supporting Children of Fearful-Avoidant Parents (+free PDF)

Watching another parent unknowingly create a fearful-avoidant attachment pattern can be painful. This guide helps you process your own emotions, understand why they parent this way, and introduce new perspectives without triggering defensiveness. Backed by research and compassionate strategies.
Understanding Attention: A Fundamental Human Need, Not a Flaw (+free pdf)

Do you struggle with needing attention or feeling unseen? This deeply compassionate guide explores why we crave attention, how childhood patterns shape our visibility, and practical tools to heal shame, feel safe being seen, and build fulfilling connections.
When Your Mother Seems to Forget You After You Have a Baby—Understanding the Distance and Healing the Rift (+free PDF)

Many new mothers feel distant or bitter toward their own mothers after giving birth. If your mother seems more focused on your child than you, leaving you feeling invisible, misunderstood, or resentful, you\’re not alone. Learn why this happens, how childhood emotional neglect (CEN) plays a role, and how to heal the rift without losing…
Why Some Mothers Crave Intense Physical Labor Instead of Rest—And How to Honor That Need (+free PDF)

Feeling drawn to intense physical labor instead of rest? Many mothers unconsciously use exertion as an emotional regulation tool. Learn why this happens, how to voice your needs without guilt, and practical ways to balance physical effort with true rest.
Why Couples Bicker Over Small Things: How Unmet Needs Fuel Conflict—And What to Do Instead

Why do couples bicker over small things, especially in stressful moments? The real issue isn’t what’s happening on the surface—it’s unmet emotional needs from the past. Learn how Childhood Emotional Neglect (CEN) and fearful-avoidant attachment fuel conflict and how to break the cycle. Plus, get a free worksheet to help shift your relationship toward understanding…
The Hidden Pain We Inherit: Why Martyrdom and Avoidance Aren’t Your Only Paths in Motherhood (+free PDF)

The wounds of our motherline often remain unspoken, yet they shape our lives in profound ways. This article explores the intergenerational transmission of trauma, the heroine’s journey to healing, and practical steps to break cycles of self-sacrifice and avoidance—creating a new legacy of presence, boundaries, and self-respect.
Mom Guilt & Mental Stimulation: Why You Crave Podcasts but Feel Guilty Ignoring Your Kids

Feeling guilty for wanting a podcast while your child plays? Here’s why you crave stimulation, how childhood emotional neglect plays a role, and how to break the cycle without guilt.
Why Inconsiderate People Trigger You More Than They \”Should\”—And How to Heal the Wound Beneath

Explore why inconsiderate behavior triggers deeper emotional reactions for those with Childhood Emotional Neglect (CEN), and how to heal the wounds beneath. Learn therapeutic exercises, boundary-setting tips, and practical tools to reclaim your emotional safety and power.
Why Inconsiderate People Trigger You More Than They “Should”—And How to Heal the Wound Beneath

You’re in a conversation, and someone barges in with an opinion that has nothing to do with them. They hijack the moment, take offense at something that wasn’t even directed their way, or somehow make the situation about themselves—demanding validation or acting wounded when no harm was meant. Or maybe it’s more overt. Someone cuts…
Why Your Child’s Whining Feels Overwhelming—And How to Respond with Calm and Care

Do you feel overwhelmed, irritated, or even numb when your child whines? If you grew up with childhood emotional neglect (CEN), your nervous system may perceive whining as a threat rather than a call for connection. This article explores why this happens, how to shift from shutdown to attunement, and offers healing exercises, practical responses,…
Why Stillness Feels Unsettling for the CEN Mother at the Playground—And How to Heal

Do you struggle with stillness at the playground—feeling restless, unproductive, or even triggered? If you grew up with childhood emotional neglect (CEN), waiting and \”doing nothing\” can feel deeply uncomfortable. This article explores the hidden reasons behind this discomfort and offers healing steps, practical exercises, and resources to help you find peace in presence.
The Electra Complex & the CEN Mother: When a Daughter’s Love Feels Like Rejection

Why does your daughter’s attachment to her father trigger feelings of rejection or inadequacy? For mothers who experienced childhood emotional neglect (CEN), Electra complex behaviors can stir deep-seated wounds. This guide explores the psychological roots of these emotions, attachment theories, and practical ways to foster a secure mother-daughter bond.
Breaking the Cycle: How Your Attachment Style Shapes Parenting (and How to Foster Secure Attachment in Your Child)

Discover how your attachment style influences your parenting and learn practical strategies to foster secure bonds with your child. This comprehensive guide explores secure, anxious, avoidant, and disorganized attachment; offers healing frameworks like IFS, EMDR, and somatic work; and provides book recommendations, YouTube resources, and actionable Q&A to help break generational cycles.
Leaning into the Mother Archetype: Healing CEN and CPTSD Patterns of Avoidance

Struggling to lean into motherhood? Learn how CEN and CPTSD shape attachment, why over-scheduling may be an avoidance strategy, and how to gently reconnect with your child—and yourself.
Healing Your Relationship with Food: Understanding Emotional Eating and Building New Habits

Struggling with emotional eating? Learn how childhood emotional neglect (CEN) shapes eating habits and discover compassionate ways to heal. Explore helpful books, plant-based recipes, and resources to nurture your body and soul.
Motherhood, CEN, and the Search for the Lost Self: A Deep Dive into Lisa Marchiano’s Motherhood

How does childhood emotional neglect (CEN) shape motherhood? Lisa Marchiano’s Motherhood explores the hidden struggles of mothers with CEN through Jungian myths and deep self-exploration. Learn how to reparent yourself, break free from old wounds, and find healing through motherhood.
Mother Rage and the Hidden Wounds of Childhood Emotional Neglect: Understanding, Healing, and Finding Peace

Struggling with intense anger as a mom? Mother rage often stems from long-term unmet needs, especially if you experienced childhood emotional neglect (CEN). Learn why it happens, how to manage it with practical exercises, and how to heal through self-compassion, emotional regulation, and breaking generational cycles.
Childhood Emotional Neglect and Conflict Resolution in Relationships: How the 5 Love Languages Can Help

Does Childhood Emotional Neglect (CEN) affect your relationships? Learn how emotional neglect influences conflict resolution, the role of love languages, and practical steps to build deeper emotional connections. Understand the impact of CEN in adulthood and discover exercises to heal and grow together.